💔 Relationship Compatibility Calculator

REAL compatibility (not zodiac BS). Based on Gottman Institute's 97% divorce prediction research + attachment theory. Get your score, divorce risk %, and growth areas.

What is Relationship Compatibility Calculator?

The first consumer compatibility test that combines Gottman Institute research (97% divorce prediction accuracy from 15 min of conflict analysis), attachment theory (Mikulincer/Levine), and the top divorce predictor — shared values alignment. A 6-step wizard (~5 min) scores your relationship across 7 dimensions: Communication (inverse of Four Horsemen), Shared Values (kids/money/location/career/religion), Attachment Compatibility (secure/anxious/avoidant/disorganized pairings with research-based stability %), Friendship, Conflict Handling, Time & Intimacy, and Love Language alignment. Outputs overall compatibility score (0-100), calibrated divorce risk %, attachment pairing archetype (from "Power Couple" to "The Trap"), top 3 strengths, and growth areas. Two modes: solo (answer for both) or couple (both partners answer separately).

How to Use

  1. Pick solo mode (you answer for both) or couple mode (both partners answer separately)
  2. Go through the 6-step wizard: basics, attachment style, Four Horsemen, bids & repair, shared values, time & intimacy
  3. See your overall compatibility score (0-100), divorce risk %, and attachment pairing archetype
  4. Review top 3 strengths, growth areas, and any Gottman red flags

Frequently Asked Questions

How accurate is this test?

It's based on Dr. John Gottman's research (40+ years, 3,000+ couples in the "Love Lab") which achieves 97% accuracy at predicting divorce from conflict analysis. We use his validated constructs adapted into a quick self-report format.

What are the "Four Horsemen"?

Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling — the four behaviors most predictive of relationship breakdown. Contempt is the strongest predictor of all, including above infidelity.

Can attachment style really predict compatibility?

Yes. Meta-analyses show attachment pairing predicts stability: Secure × Secure reaches ~90% stability, while Anxious × Avoidant pairings (the "trap") only reach ~28%. Research by Bowlby, Ainsworth, Mikulincer, and Levine.

Should I see a therapist if my score is low?

If you're seeing regular Four Horsemen (especially contempt) or your score is under 50, a Gottman-trained couples therapist can help. Couples who address these early have 80%+ success rates.

Related Tools

  • 💕 Love Calculator — Calculate love compatibility between two names with fun animated results and shareable scores.
  • 🧬 Biological Age Calculator — Your body age isn't your birthday age. Take the 3-minute test based on Blue Zones and PhenoAge research. See y
  • ⚔️ Habit Duel — Who\ — Head-to-head health comparison. You vs friend, past-you, or Bryan Johnson. Get a viral roast + clear winner ac
  • 🎂 Age Calculator — Free age computation tool — calculate age from date of birth in years, months, days, hours, and minutes with f
  • % Percentage Calculator — Calculate percentages instantly — find X% of Y, percentage change, increase/decrease by %, and what percent X
  • 🏦 Loan Calculator — Calculate monthly loan payments, total interest, and amortization schedule. Free amortization calculator with
  • 📈 SIP Calculator — Calculate SIP returns with step-up option, wealth growth chart, and lump sum comparison. Free mutual fund SIP
  • 💸 Small Spending Big Loss Calculator — Your daily chai, coffee, or Swiggy habit is silently costing you crores. See the true long-term cost of small

Related: relationship compatibility calculator, couple compatibility test, gottman quiz, attachment style compatibility, will we last test, marriage success predictor, relationship health score, four horsemen test, divorce risk calculator, real compatibility test, non zodiac compatibility